How to Attract a Scorpio Man

The number one tip for attracting a Scorpio man is to create an intriguing air of mystery about yourself. He’ll find you much more fascinating, and be keen to get to know you better, if you hold back at first from revealing everything about your life. Nothing appeals more to the Scorpio male than solving difficult puzzles and uncovering hidden information. If you make things too easy for him by presenting yourself as an open book, he’ll quickly lose interest in you. If, on the other hand, you give him a bit of a challenge - which no Scorpio man can ever resist - he’ll find it impossible to keep away. Be very careful though, not to be dishonest in any way. A little reticence is fine, but if a Scorpio discovers you’ve been telling him actual untruths, you may have ruined your chance of seducing this guy.

Be Totally Upfront and Truthful

A Scorpio man is unlikely to fall in love with someone who has deceived him or taken him for a fool, so play your cards wisely to win this guy’s heart. Because this star sign finds it hard to forgive and forget, once you’ve given a Scorpio man reason to think he can no longer trust you, he will probably be turned off for ever. However good you may consider yourself at getting away with little white lies, be aware that you’ll always be found out by a Scorpio. These guys have a fearsome talent for ferreting out all kinds of secrets and misinformation. If there’s something in your life you feel ashamed of or uncomfortable about, it’s far better to be totally upfront with a Scorpio man than try to massage the facts in some way. Scorpio men have a lot of respect for honesty, but only contempt for liars and cheats.

Don’t Let Him Push you Around

Be classy and dignified and make like you’re a person of real substance in order to attract a Scorpio man. Scorpios demand the highest quality in all aspects of their life, not least in their love life, and won’t waste their time on you if you come across as cheap and flaky. If you own any expensive stuff, be sure to flaunt it. If you don’t, talk about your aspirations for acquiring some soon. Scorpio men are attracted to strong minded people with plenty of guts who know where they’re going in life. You won’t win a Scorpio’s heart if you give the impression of being a weak willed loser. To be someone a Scorpio man could fall in love with, you have to prove you’re capable of standing up for yourself. Expect him to give you plenty of chances to prove this as he tests out how easily he can push you around.

Play a Little Bit Hard to Get

While sex obviously means a lot to most guys, for the Scorpio man it’s possibly the most important thing about a relationship. For this reason, in order to seduce a male Scorpio, it’s important to send out strong signals that you find him sexually attractive. But at the same time don’t commit the cardinal error of making yourself too easily sexually available to a Scorpio man. Instead of throwing yourself at him, use subtle body language to show you’re interested, dress provocatively but not in too obvious a way (it’s wise to leave something to his imagination) and make a point of playing a bit hard to get. Remember that the Scorpio man loves a challenge and soon gets bored if everything is handed to him on a plate. To keep him on the hook, best make him wait as long as you can for sex.

Never Try Telling Him What to Do

Win a Scorpio man’s confidence - and his heart - by never doing or saying anything that makes him feel threatened or challenges his personal control. Although they’d hate you to know it, these guys suffer from all kinds of inner insecurities which they’re careful to hide behind a tough outer skin. Scorpio men like to be in a position of maximum power, which they achieve by always staying in charge and disclosing as little as possible about themselves (although of course they want to know all about you). If you pry too deeply into a Scorpio man’s life or start telling him what to do, he’ll get very suspicious of your motives, go massively on the defensive and pull back from getting involved with you. Play it softly, softly when trying to seduce a Scorpio guy - and never forget you’re playing with fire!

Scorpio Man with other Zodiac Signs